Friday, 31 May 2013

."My Connections to Play."


Some quotes that help express what play meant to me as a child are:

“The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct.” – Carl Jung

“Play is the work of the child.” – Maria Montessori

“Children learn as they play. Most importantly, in play children learn how to learn.” – O. Fred Donaldson

“Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning.” – Mr. Rogers



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As a child, play had an integral role in my development. I have learnt how to be creative, imaginative and understand and relate well to my young students because of my play experiences.
During my early and middle childhood years my family lived close by the sea, so my parents took my siblings and I regularly to the beach. The bucket and spade represent my memories of my dad and I building digging and playing in the sand and counting the amount of spade full of sand it took to fill my bucket. My siblings and I would each try to out do each other in gathering shells and smooth rocks, some of which I took for my science corner at school.

Well, I was quite obsessed with barbie for most of my childhood. I thought that she was the most beautiful doll in the world. Actually I think she still is. I remember how happy I was when I finally got my own. She helped me build my imagination and also I used her to learn real life skills such as how to sew, braid hair, and a few others. These skills also helped with my fine muscle development.

Sometime around my later childhood, I was given a pack of Jacks. I practiced playing this game, which requires excellent coordination if the eyes and hands. When I went into high school I was very shy. However, I was able to use my excellent skills in Jacks playing to make friends. Everyone wanted me on their team. Some of those frienships I still value unto today.

I think the face of play is changing for this new generation. They see play as sitting before the television with a nintendo or going on line to video games as play. So if a six year old is asked if he plays, even though he does not engage in outdoor play, he is likely to answer yes. However, the consequences of engaging only in such play is evident. Many children are obese, have pent up emotions and struggle with self regulation, just to name a few. My hope for the children of this generation is
that they will experience the true joys of play. That they too will be able to develop their imagination, creativity, and excetra. Almost all aspects of their development depends on play. As an early childhood professional I will always advocate for play, because I know the benefits that are derived through play and each individual deserves those benefits in childhood and beyond.


Thursday, 16 May 2013

Relationship Reflection Relationships are important to me because they help to validate me and motivate me grow and achieve my goals. I am also given the opportunity to express what I feel with those significant others. Caring for others motivates me to work as hard as I do. They push me to overcome obstacles and take on challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. My Family/i>.
My relationship with my family is very important to me. They have inspired me to be the the person that I am today. The values that are upheld are passed on to the younger generation both implicitly and explicitly. These include values of integrity, education, respect, etc. Today I hold these values very dear and I plan to pass them on to my children. Sister/Sister My sister Esther is one of the warmest persons you will ever meet. Her calm personality helps to cushion my feisty over the top own. We relate easily to each other.She is my best friend. We are just three years apart so we are able to talk about almost anything. My Friends Though I could not find a photo of the us altogether I must include them in this reflection. They are warm and loving and they help to keep me grounded. Most of them are Christians so we encourage each other to keep the faith in God alive and to make decisions that are most beneficial to us. Keeping partnerships going requires open communication and trust. I think that without these qualities they will not last.